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Cause we both know that expectation kills ...

A friend said, "You are going nowhere, until any of you have the guts to talk about what kind of relationship it is. Even if you both only want companionship, it should be discussed to avoid misunderstanding.Then it's just the matter of time until you both get exhausted."

Too bad, I don't have the courage.

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Anonymous said…
Gampang... tanya aja lansung !
Ask your heavenly Father, your heart and your friend or .....
12:28 PM
Anonymous said…
I tend to agree with the advice. But first you'll have to discover what YOU want out of the relationship :).
7:22 PM
Anonymous said…
Ah klo guwe sih mending sakiiiit sekarang lalu get another dp sakit bsk ... terlanjur cayang...
10:42 AM
Anonymous said…
Mit, kamu nggak akan pernah tahu dan akan terus berandai-andai.... sampai kamu punya keberanian buat bertanya ;) -dw-
2:46 PM
Anonymous said…
I agree with all o the advices above. Be careful my dear.
9:53 AM
Anonymous said…
Gitu aja kok reepoot
2:57 PM
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