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2000


Elo mau nikah umur berapa?
Hmm, nikah? Tar-tar deh, almost 30 gitu kaliii.
Elo emang rada laen daripada yang laen, hahaha.
Biarin. Masih pengen senang-senang. Jalan-jalan.

2005

Gw dah pengen nikah, ngajak anak gw main basket.
Hihihi ... nikah? Harga susu bayi mahal tau!
Elo tuh ya.
Hehehe, this time, aku gak kebayang nikah tuh kayak apa. Blank.
Elo gak pernah bikin statement kayak gini sebelumnya.

2006

Aku dah puas jungkir balik sekarang, dah gak penasaran apa-apa lagi. Pengen nikah n punya anak.
Huahahaha, what a surprise
Iya, dah puas bisa sekolah lagi. Dah puas liat belahan bumi laennya. Dan gak penasaran sama karir.
Hihihi, yakin? Elo mah ada-ada aja. Trus buat apa S2?
Weits, emangnya cewek pengen nikah dan punya anak gak boleh S2 apa? Justru kalo gak S2, masih belum puas jungkir balik kalee.
So, find a man and get married sana!
Emangnya gampang kayak pengen beli cemilan gitu. Tinggal ke carefour and beli sesuka-suka kita :p
Seriously Mit, it's a surprise. But take ur time ya, getting married and being a mother itu gak gampang loh.
Hahaha, ya iyalah. Apalagi kalo punya anak badung kayak aku.

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Just realized (one more time) that I've been given so much love by the people around me, esp. my mother. Just realized that I wanna give the same thing by being a mother.

Now, I wanna settle down, if God let me.

Comments

Anonymous said…
Mit, aku ga pernah suka anak2 loh. Bahkan skarang pun, aku cuma bisa ber"aduh-lucunya-sini-main-dong" sama anak sendiri, plus anaknya adek.
Aku juga bukan tipe ibu yang seneng dikelilingi anak2 kecil. Aku ga mau punya anak banyak2.

Kurang keibuan? Bisa jadi... Tapi selama aku masih bisa ngurus anak, ya biar aja lah. Ga semua cewe harus ngikutin pattern "keibuan & suka anak kecil".. hehe..
10:04 AM
Anonymous said…
jadi?
kapan ke carrefour bareng? buka-buka katalognya dulu kali. cari yang baik hati, sedikit tampan bolehlah, kebapakan, ramah, lucu. hahahhaha
12:36 PM
Mita said…
yanti : hihihi, yang penting sudah terbukti jadi ibu yang baik buat naila kan teh :) ?

atta : hahaha, katalognya lengkap gak yaa :D ? baik, cerdas, menyenangkan, ramah, lucu, bla bla bla bla ... waah, list nya panjang sekali, hihihi.
8:56 AM
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