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I didn't care what people told me to

"Jangan mau tetep deket sama dia ... buang2 waktu ..."
"Ikuti aja apa yang elo rasakan ... ikuti sampai elo capek sendiri ... pasti akan bakal naik turun. Ketika capek akhirnya elo akan bisa melihat dari perspektif lain ... "
"Jangan mau dong tetep jalan bareng dia. Elo pasti gak akan kepikiran buat cari cowok kalau elo masih tetep deket sama dia!"
"Cuma kamu yang tau apa yang kamu rasakan. "
"Tetap bersahabat dan jalan bareng boleh, tapi kurangi frekuensinya ... "
"Jangan ragu mau diajak jalan bareng lagi ... "
"Jangan langsung dicut, kasian, dia bingung ... "

semua adalah yang orang bilang ...
sudah aku putuskan, dan aku tau apa yang aku mau.
aku gak mau kehilangan seorang temen ngobrol yang asyik ...
temen diskusi, temen curhat, temen ketawa ketiwi ...
memang itu beresiko, gak usah dibilangin aku juga udah tau ...
keras kepala :) ? memang aku keras kepala.
aku janji, aku gak akan nyesel dengan apa yang udah aku putuskan.

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